Xi did not need rank or formal authority to be listened to. Trust in him stemmed from the way he acted, the calmness with which he led, and the knowledge that he could be relied on in important moments.
For example, during a briefing before an operation, the soldiers were tired and the atmosphere was heavy. Instead of lecturing or applying pressure, Shay smiled and said simply:
“Come on guys, it’s like last time, only this time I promise not to do any tricks.”
The laughter released the tension, the atmosphere changed, and the team went into action more focused, calm, and united.
Xi did not need rank or formal authority to be listened to.
Derech Eretz – mutual respect, courtesy, and ethical conduct even in the most challenging moments.
Maintaining the respect of others – respectful treatment of every person, regardless of background, gender, or status.
Seeing the other – the ability to discern the needs of others, be there for them, and support them at the right time.
Empathy and caring – the ability to listen, feel the other person, and be there for them in small and big moments.
Giving wholeheartedly – investing in others out of a sincere desire to help, even without obligation or expectation of return.
Striving for excellence – a constant aspiration for self-improvement and achieving optimal results through professionalism and commitment.
Leadership in the field – the ability to lead others, serve as a personal example, and have a positive impact through actions.
Creativity and thinking outside the box – the ability to deal with complex challenges and find smart and innovative solutions.
Integrity and modesty – acting with complete integrity, with humility and without seeking personal glory.
Perseverance and commitment to a goal – the ability to deal with difficulties, persevere on the path, and act with determination even when it is not easy.
Personal Responsibility – Taking full responsibility for actions and committing to performing at the highest level.
Inspiration – being a figure who inspires others to follow suit.
