Shay knew how to be present when needed, without making a fuss or making a big deal out of it. He understood that true caring is expressed in the small, quiet gestures. For example, during a complex activity that lasted for hours, one of the soldiers on the team seemed exhausted. Without commenting or creating a sense of weakness, Shay simply approached him, brought him a click and a voice, and said with a smile:“You won’t fall in my face, will you?”
They both smiled, and the soldier continued his work with a sense of encouragement, knowing that someone was seeing him and caring about him.
Shay knew how to be present when needed.
Derech Eretz – mutual respect, courtesy, and ethical conduct even in the most challenging moments.
Maintaining the respect of others – respectful treatment of every person, regardless of background, gender, or status.
Seeing the other – the ability to discern the needs of others, be there for them, and support them at the right time.
Empathy and caring – the ability to listen, feel the other person, and be there for them in small and big moments.
Giving wholeheartedly – investing in others out of a sincere desire to help, even without obligation or expectation of return.
Striving for excellence – a constant aspiration for self-improvement and achieving optimal results through professionalism and commitment.
Leadership in the field – the ability to lead others, serve as a personal example, and have a positive impact through actions.
Creativity and thinking outside the box – the ability to deal with complex challenges and find smart and innovative solutions.
Integrity and modesty – acting with complete integrity, with humility and without seeking personal glory.
Perseverance and commitment to a goal – the ability to deal with difficulties, persevere on the path, and act with determination even when it is not easy.
Personal Responsibility – Taking full responsibility for actions and committing to performing at the highest level.
Inspiration – being a figure who inspires others to follow suit.
