Someone will ask for help, but will know when a little encouragement, a kind word, or a quiet presence is needed.
For example, during a table tennis training camp at the Wingate Institute, one of the players had mental difficulties at the beginning of his stay. Shay noticed this immediately, invited him for a tour of the complex, and in a simple, direct conversation, managed to dispel the feeling of alienation and connect him to the team.
In another example, during a military operation, one of the soldiers on the team seemed stressed and insecure. Shay approached him gently and said with a smile:
“Don’t worry, if we get stuck, we can always say that Xi told us to try it.”
The little joke relieved him, but more importantly, it made it clear to him that he was not alone and that there was someone standing by his side.
Shay didn’t wait for someone to ask for help.
Derech Eretz – mutual respect, courtesy, and ethical conduct even in the most challenging moments.
Maintaining the respect of others – respectful treatment of every person, regardless of background, gender, or status.
Seeing the other – the ability to discern the needs of others, be there for them, and support them at the right time.
Empathy and caring – the ability to listen, feel the other person, and be there for them in small and big moments.
Giving wholeheartedly – investing in others out of a sincere desire to help, even without obligation or expectation of return.
Striving for excellence – a constant aspiration for self-improvement and achieving optimal results through professionalism and commitment.
Leadership in the field – the ability to lead others, serve as a personal example, and have a positive impact through actions.
Creativity and thinking outside the box – the ability to deal with complex challenges and find smart and innovative solutions.
Integrity and modesty – acting with complete integrity, with humility and without seeking personal glory.
Perseverance and commitment to a goal – the ability to deal with difficulties, persevere on the path, and act with determination even when it is not easy.
Personal Responsibility – Taking full responsibility for actions and committing to performing at the highest level.
Inspiration – being a figure who inspires others to follow suit.
